If you are a woman, you tend to worry, over think and have tons of questions about life. It’s a part of the female make-up that most of us have to learn to overcome or diminish through faith and maturity. Yet, one way to deal with all of the questions boggling our minds is to get a few answers to the most common ones. Below is some help.
Question 1: “Am I really good in bed?”
Answer – Yes. You are really good in bed to whomever you are willing to sleep with. You see. Unlike what you might think, men aren’t that picky. They find weird things sexy and if you’re willing to share yourself with them they are actually grateful.
Question 2: “Does my breath smell bad?”
Answer – Sometimes. Your breath smells bad in the morning and after you eat certain foods like garlic. The best way to combat it is by brushing and flossing your teeth every day. Also, if you chew on mint or gum, you’ll keep your breath smelling fresh more often too.
Question 3: “Can she really keep a secret?”
Answer – No. Your female friend cannot keep a secret any better than you can. She’ll tell at least one person who will tell another person. For this reason, the best way to keep a secret is to tell no one. Write it by hand on a piece of paper and then burn it in the sink with fire shortly afterward. It’ll be cathartic.
Question 4: “Did I turn off my curling iron?”
Answer – Eight times out of ten, you did turn off your curling iron. Your place is intact and not burned to the ground. However, the best way to handle the “curling iron-fire issue” is to buy one that automatically shuts itself off. You can find one at Wal-Mart or Target for pennies. By the way, if your place ever caught fire because of a curling iron, it will most likely be due to an electrical short and be covered by insurance.
Question 5: “Will I look like my mother when I get older?”
Answer – Yes. You will look like your mother if you look like her now. However, there are a few things you can control. One, you can control your weight. Two, you can control your level of fashion. Three, you can control your attitude. So, the true answer to your question is that you can look like a better or worse version of your mother depending on how you take care of yourself as you age.
Question 6: “Are my kids really going to be okay?”
Answer – No. Your kids are going to be human just like you. There will be situations and events that they will struggle with as adults. Therefore, the best thing you can do for them is to live a meaningful life and teach them how to trouble shoot and enjoy their time on this earth.
Question 7: “Do I look fat in this outfit?”
Answer – If you are sincerely asking the question, then the answer is “yes.” You are already fat, so the only thing you can do is find clothes that complement your big body. The other thing is to accept your self as you are and love every curve, bulge and roll. Think of your form as an ancient Greek statue that is worth worshipping, but just got built a few centuries too late.
Well, hopefully, the answers to the above questions will help you find peace even if it’s for only five minutes. Remember, you’re a woman. It’s in your nature to worry and over think, so there’ll be new questions. Howver, until then, enjoy all of the silence.