Sun Signs are the tip of the iceberg in astrology; a person’s character is a mix of all astrological factors in their chart. This is a fun look at Cancer and relationships.
Dating a Cancer Man
The Cancer man won’t rush headlong into a love-relationship. Nothing is more important to him than finding the woman who will make his life truly complete. It will take a long time before he’ll bare his all (emotionally) in a partnership.
It will be important, especially at the start of a relationship, that he shouldn’t be too touchy or timid. Otherwise his potential lover might feel as if he doesn’t find her attractive. His fear of ridicule must be overcome before he shows himself in his true colours.
Once he has lowered his defences, the Cancerian man will demonstrate how wonderfully loving, sensual and caring he can be. Everything he craves for, senses, feels and fears is thrown into his love relationship.
His love affairs are life-long affairs. Even if they don’t work out the way he’d hoped, he’ll tenaciously cling on as long as humanly possible. Those born under the sign of the Crab hate to let go.
Dating a Cancer Woman
She may not be vivacious, but there is an imperceptible appeal to the Cancer woman which attracts the opposite sex. Shy by nature, she is full of insecurities and needs to be constantly reassured of her desirability. She is seldom openly assertive. Her partner must be willing to make the first move.
She is sensual and moody. Romantic relationships increase her sense of security. Her lover must be interested in her dreams and hopes for the future. He must be willing to be a part of them. She has strong levels of emotion and Ms Cancer is vulnerable and easily hurt. Her temperament is unpredictable at times.
Romantically, she can become exceedingly intense, often motivated by deeper, hidden feelings. By the light of the silvery moon, the Cancerian woman shines.
How to Woo and Win a Cancer Man
‘Determination’ is the main requirement when wooing this sensitive soul. He won’t rush into love even if he was paid. The right setting might however, help put him in the right frame of mind. Museums and historic buildings keep him entertained for hours. For more intimacy, arrange a cosy informal dinner. Or book a table at a quiet, out-of-the-way restaurant.
He responds well to soft lights, gentle music, elegant, feminine clothes and expensive perfumes. Sailing and being near water will be just his cup of tea. It’s his emotions, not his mind or body which have to be enticed. Once he feels secure in love, his most romantic dream will be to sail off into the sunset with his sweetheart.
How to Woo and Win a Cancer Woman
Modest yet moody, the Moon-ruled Cancerian doesn’t feel at home in a crowd. The fewer the people and the quieter the place, the better. Walks along the pier, swimming by moonlight and cruising along the river provide the ideal background for romance. She doesn’t usually go in for wildly exciting escapades but sometimes, when the moon is full, she’ll show a more adventurous side to her nature.
She needs a lot of reassurance about her looks and her desirability. But she won’t ever commit herself fully until she is certain that she has stolen her guy’s heart. Once committed to a long term relationship, she will love with a gentle intenseness or she’ll love with an obsession that her lover may wonder what he’s gone and let himself in for!