It is a difficult and disconcerting feeling when you still yearn for your ex-boyfriend and there’s nothing you could do because you are no longer together. Crying and moping definitely won’t resolve the problem – sure, it may make you feel better at the time…but you’ll need to find a way to get over it (or to try to get him back). It’s best if you don’t show your ex that you are distraught over the situation. Men do not like being hounded by women (well, most men anyways!). Here are simple tips on how to make your ex-boyfriend miss you.
First tip is to have a makeover. There’s a saying that you cannot love other people if you do not even love yourself. Instead of hibernating inside your den, it would be pleasant to leave your hideout and face your problems. Appear confident and face your personal issues. Then pamper yourself by going to your favorite salon. Be clad in a trendy outfit and wear a new haircut or try a different hair color. Make yourself look fabulous and attractive by eating nutritious foods and taking time to exercise. Consuming foods rich in vitamins and minerals will make your skin look radiant and glowing. A healthy diet and exercise are the simplest and cheapest approaches to create a stunning look, and if there’s a chance that you will pass by each other; he will definitely notice your striking looks.
Next tip is to keep occupied. Don’t waste your time imagining him getting back to you after a week of breakup. Give him a chance to mull over and enjoy yourself without him. Let him do some stuff without you and maybe he will contemplate that he is missing you. He will not be able to savor your sweet moments together if you repeatedly keep on pursuing him and pleading to get back with you.
Socialize and get together with friends or colleagues. Put a little spice and add variety into your life. Meet new people and if he intends to call you don’t make a return call right away. Be certain first on what his real intention is. Do not be too excited in calling him. Let him work hard for your attention and miss you madly.
Make yourself available. If you do not intend to make things complicated for the both of you, do not attempt to involve third party. Act fairly and think sensibly. Be positive. Everything will be going back to its course at the right time. You also should keep in mind with any break-up that as difficult as it may seem at the time – sometimes there is nothing you can do to bring you and the other person back together. Just try to remain optimistic and you’ll soon see that there are plenty of others out there.
Article Resource: Anna Olalia