Dating is a frustration experience for many people. It’s hard to tell who likes whom and what their intentions are, especially when two people first meet. Through some simple observations and exercises, every woman can find out if a man is attracted to her without having to resort to middle school games, like asking his friends if he likes her. If a woman learns to trust her gut and watch for tell-tale body language, she will easily be able to spot an interested man right from the start.
Many times, a man comes on strongly upon first meeting a woman, signaling his interest in her. Yet, there are many other times when a man is attracted to a woman but does not show it by simply stating his feelings. These situations call for observation on the part of the female in order to find out his true feelings.
A keen observer of body language knows what a person is thinking without having to hear it spoken out loud. A man who is interested in a woman will flash his eyebrows when he first spots her in a room. This takes a fraction of a second, so it is often hard to spot. But, if he is interested, his eyebrows will slowly move up and down during his interaction with the woman. Additionally, he will lean into the object of his affection while she is talking, signaling interest and wanting to get closer to her any way possible.
If the man and woman are not engaged in conversation, it is still possible to tell if he is attracted to her. In a crowded room, regardless of where his head is pointing, his torso will be pointed at the object of his affection. Additionally, if he feels confident, his toes will also point in her direction. If he is nervous, or unsure of her feelings, his toes may be pointed inward, towards each other. He will also engage in positioning his body in a very manly pose to show power and virility. This usually involves standing with his feet at a shoulder width apart with his hands on his hips pointing at his belt buckle, suggesting a sexual power. He may also comb his hair with his hands or adjust his belt or tie to look his best to attract the object of his affection.
Always trust your gut. A woman’s intuition is her best asset. If it screams run, run. If it screams that he likes you — he does. Your gut is always right.
Sometimes, liars and players come on strong to try to woo you into doing whatever it is that they want. If a man comes on very strong, he probably falls into one of these categories. If he stands back and shows respect to you and your friends – he is probably genuinely attracted to you.