By staying quiet and watching social behavior, valuable lessons can be learned. You’d be surprised – it’s actually extremely easy to tell if a man is sexually attracted to a woman. All the signs are there, but most people miss them. Actually, there are only really three things you need to watch for and recognize, and even the most careful man will struggle to hide all three of them. Granted, things change dramatically if the two actually *are* a couple, but for those secret crushes, these signs will help to clue you in. Are you ready to hear the secrets behind recognizing such attraction? Here we go!
Sign #1: A man who is sexually attracted to a woman will instinctively change his behavior to better himself in her eyes. The nature of this behavior depends on the man, and could be difficult to spot if you’re not already familiar with his body language, but in the majority of cases it’s as plain as day. It’s like the Sun. Most of the time, you don’t consciously see it your brain blacks it out, it’s uninteresting, it’s there all the time so your brain doesn’t register it. Yet when you look for it, it’s blinding and you wonder how you ever missed it.
This change in behavior to better himself in her eyes often takes place when she first enters his sight. A straightening of the back. A quick smoothing of the shirt. A hand through his hair. Depending on the self-confidence of the man, a beaming smile at the lady or an obvious avoidance of eye contact, save in furtive glances both equally damning and blatant signs that something is afoot. A nervous hitch in the voice. The more attracted the man is, the more obvious the signs. I’ve seen it myself so many times, from men of all manner of backgrounds and social levels.
Sign #2. A man who is sexually attracted to a woman will inevitably become more primal in nature if he’s in a group of other males when she approaches. It’s not something males can really help. They start to talk louder and act more boisterous. They exude self-confidence, whether they have it or not. They become more verbally combative with friends around them, or physically combative if they’re playing a sport at the time, etc. It’s not near as subtle as sign #1, and becomes more obvious when the group of males he’s with becomes larger, as most likely they are having the same response, and it becomes a contest to become the ‘leader’, the ‘alpha male’. It’s primitive, primal, dirt-covered, and genetic. It’s also a sure sign that the man is sexually interested in the woman.
Sign #3. The eyes are the window to the soul. Even the most careful man, the one who barely moves a finger when the woman he finds desirable enters his field of vision, will have a reaction that he cannot hide. Watch his eyes. It’s impossible to describe, but once you’ve seen it once, you will never fail to recognize it again. The man is focused on controlling his bodily response, voice, and manners, but exuding fine muscle control to suppress expression around the eyes is near impossible.
A true story: when a young man fell in love with his first serious girlfriend (a relationship that went on to last for 18 happy months) he was determined at the time to keep it a secret between the two. He was convinced that only he and his girlfriend knew, as they were so careful with their comments to their friends and their behavior in public. One week later a female friend of the girlfriend walked up to her and asked, “So how are things going with your new guy?” When the males sweetheart began to sputter and demand how her friend knew, the response?
“I saw the way he was looking at you from way across the field”.