Many times a few details play such an important role in your life that you really must learn how to care about them.
When you look for someone, of course you don’t have in mind the characteristics of their personality but their figure in general…
However, when you meet an interesting person, you must know how to look for the important details that reveal to you what the basic characteristics of their personality are.
You have to learn how to think like an old man or woman, and care about everything if you want to be really happy and prepare your life with security, guaranteeing the fidelity of your companion, and of course your own fidelity, since you’ll be happy with him or her. You won’t have any reason to look for someone else.
This is why it is basic for you to discover the right person for you, instead of getting involved with anyone: this person may provoke you much suffering, instead of bringing you happiness, and your life with them will be full of fears and doubts, since you won’t feel that you both are really connected.
Pay attention to whom you say: “I love you”.
Don’t say it easily and think a lot before getting involved with someone.
Many people make very silly mistakes that could be avoided if they paid attention to various details in the other person’s personality that reveal a lot. They ignore these details, because they don’t understand their importance, and even when they see that something is not the way they like, they don’t think that it is essential.
However, if you want to discover a mystery, learn something you have ignored or discover a criminal, you can do that only based on the details you’ll observe.
The details of someone’s personality, the details of reality, of the facts and everything, reveal more than what you may imagine!
You may be anxious for a relationship, tired of being alone, feeling that you are the only one who doesn’t have yet a boyfriend or a girlfriend, or that you “don’t have other options” than accepting to have a relationship you are not totally satisfied with, for many reasons.
However, be patient and don’t accept any kind of relationship with anyone. Be very cautious and believe that you will find the right person for you, looking for them without getting involved with wrong people, because the consequences of wrong relationships are many.
For example, a young woman sent me two dreams for translation, and told me that she had a “quite normal life”. She was happy with her boyfriend and everything seemed to be fine with her. However, the two dreams she sent me where nightmares, which clearly revealed that her relationship with her boyfriend was not the ideal one.
When I translated her dreams and told her so, she told me that she could not agree with my translation, because she and her boyfriend understood each other and she felt that her relationship was perfect.
I told her that my translation was certainly correct, asking for more details about her boyfriend and her relationship with him.
Then she told me that when she first met him, he liked her, but she didn’t like him so much. Then she became sick and he gave her great support at the time of the disease. She felt very grateful to him. This was how their relationship began…
What do you think?
It is obvious that she doesn’t really love her boyfriend. She simply felt grateful for his support when she was sick and he managed to conquer her this way. This relationship of course is not the ideal one for her… But she cannot realize that now. She thinks that everything is “very good”…
How long can everything be good, if her “love” for the man with whom she is now, is based only on friendship and gratitude?
The unconscious mind was trying to prevent traumas and serious psychical problems in the future, by showing her in her dreams that the man she had to be with was somebody else, and not her actual boyfriend.
If you have a relationship with someone you don’t really love, you feel frustrated in the end, and this frustration can bring you serious mental illnesses, depending on your life conditions and other factors.
Never say “I love you” to anyone if you don’t really mean that. Say it only when you really feel this way, from the bottom of your heart!